Meet Maria

What was your experience like?
Like everything, there are always ups and downs. Some moments so fun and memorable that you will never forget them – some equally as scary that will cause the same effect.

Are you introverted or extroverted?
I am extroverted but suffer from social anxiety. While it’s not as common (people always link social anxiety with introverts), it is definitely real and can be difficult to manage at times. Travel has helped me with this 100%.

Did you meet new friends along the way?
Yes, I love meeting people while I am traveling. I have met people abroad that continue to be close friends (and even travel companions!) to this day.

Did anyone or event change any perspective of your life?
On my first solo trip to Europe I had my suitcase stolen off of a train. I was scheduled to travel for 3 months and this happened 2 weeks into my trip. All of my anxieties and insecurities wanted to take over – it was the loneliest and scariest thing that has ever happened to me. I was so far from home and had nothing or no one to turn to. Luckily, I had all of my documents and money – but all of my precious stuff I had packed was gone (I lost some of my favorite things!). It was emotional, but at the same time it was one of those things that shows you what you’re made of. I realized that I had to continue moving forward with my trip. With all my stuff gone, I felt like I had lost everything and had nothing left to lose which allowed me to open up to people without letting my social anxieties get in the way. I spoke to everyone and anyone, made tons of friends at each hostel I went to and saw firsthand how generous and genuinely nice people can be. It changed me as a person and my overall life forever. Read more about Maria’s experience here.

Were there times you didn’t feel safe and if so how did you handle it?
There was a time in Italy where I had made friends with a girl and we went to a beach club. While there, we were each surrounded by a group of guys as they led us closer to the water, away from the party and the lights. We kept screaming out in Italian to stop and thankfully someone heard us. They brought security over and kicked out the guys. We were shocked, scared and decided to stay a while to make sure all the guys who were now outside the club, had gone. The club owner sent us home with one of their security guards to walk us back – it was an amazing gesture and overall happy ending to what could’ve been something much worse.

Would you do it again?
I have since been back to that city and even that club. I am a firm believer in not letting people or situations ruin something for you. With every situation that occurs, you learn to be smarter and handle things differently. There is a lesson in every situation.

What advice would you give to other women traveling solo?
Be alert and aware, but don’t let your fear take over your adventure. You did it! You’re traveling on your own. Not many people have the guts to do it. Arm yourself with as much information about the place(s) you are visiting, take all precautions necessary for your safety and just be smart. Talk to people and make friends, but always look out for anything that sounds or feels shady. Follow your gut and listen to that little voice inside that can usually detect something that’s not right. Have fun and take the time to really learn about people, cultures and yourself!